You both love God, and your marriage is still hard. Start with the idea that changes how you see it: marriage began before the first wedding, and Christ belongs in the middle of it.
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Why do husbands and wives who genuinely love God sometimes find themselves drifting apart?
That question started this book. The answer isn’t a new technique for communication, conflict or intimacy. Those matter, but the author argues they aren’t the foundation.
The free chapters walk you through that foundation, one step at a time, so you can decide for yourself whether the rest of the book is for you.
The Preface, the Introduction and the first three chapters of Part One.
Why this book was written, and why a wedding can include God without being centered on Him.
A marriage older than the world, and why the story starts long before Eden.
The forgotten witness: what it means that God was present at your wedding and is still in the room.
A fresh look at Genesis 2:24, more than a verse for wedding ceremonies.
If the first chapters resonate, the full book continues with the Middleman Effect itself, then communication, conflict, intimacy, parenting, money, and what to do when one spouse isn’t following Christ.
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